„Proportion is all; and, in sports at school, I lost it by surrendering to the awful significance of my self-consciousness. Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people.“

—  Andre Dubus, Under the Lights.
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Novelist, short story writer, teacher 1936 - 1999

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